We support your article’s contents,
Korir – African Press in Norway, APN.
For that reason, we have decided to reprint it in order for it to reach many others.
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First of all, we would like to send our condolences to the bereaved family.In regards to the several articles posted on KSB blog concerning Maggero’s death and funeral arrangements, we would like to respond as we hold a different opinion on the matter.While agreeing that Mr. Maggero deserves a decent send off, we believe that the contents of his will should be the overruling factor in regards to his burial arrangements. If it is clearly stated in the will that Mr. Maggero chose cremation this should be respected.As is stated in one of the articles that cremation is an abhourable taboo and goes against the luo culture, we would like to bring to your attention the fact that cremation has NEVER been part of luo traditions so it is even despicable to mention it as a taboo. We would like to inform you that a taboo is something forbidden by a custom and generally agreed upon not to be practised. In this regard therefore, cremation is not a taboo since it has NEVER been part of luo customs neither has it been generally agreed upon as one. We also think that burial decisions are family affairs and therefore consider your recent meddling, an interference. While we appreciate the fact that Maggero was a very social Kenyan, with many acquaintances, we think that burial arrangements should be solely done by the family (legitimate wife and kids). The rest of his friends and fellow Kenyans are however free to mourn and grieve their departed friend but while respecting family decisions, and his will. Anyone who truly loved and respected Mr. Maggero should desist from giving him a chaotic send off and instead comply with his wishes. Secondly, we have also noticed how in your previous articles you have tried to address the fact that Mr. Maggero’s funeral and burial decisions are solely being handled by his wife and four daughters; a matter which appears clearly to bother you. We would like to ascertain to you that Women are equal stakeholders in a family and their decisions are to be respected. In this case, the implication that Maggero’s sons should be looked for and consulted to decide on cremation or otherwise is therefore disrespectful to both his wife and daughters and also to Maggero himself who valued his family irrespective of their genders. Anyone who has clear problems with women making decisions should realise in fact that we live in the 21st century where human beings are no longer judged by their genders but by the contents of their intellectual capabilities. We believe that the gender discussion should not even be a deciding factor in this particular case because the cremation decision was in fact Maggero’s as is captured in his WILL and not his wife’s and daughters. Thirdly, while we appreciate Mr. Osewe’s undying efforts to inform Kenyans in Stockholm of all the on goings, we would like to appeal to him to stop generalising articles on the blog, especially concerning Maggero’s death and funeral arrangements as a reaction of all Kenyans in Stockholm when in fact a big cross section of Kenyans feel otherwise regarding the matter. We would like to appeal to KSB to please let the family be. It is already enough pain that they have lost their father and husband and the last thing that they need is ‘uncalled for criticism’. Lastly, the caption on one of the articles addressing ‘White and Black matrimonial relationships, is in bad taste and totally uncalled for. We don’t see any white or black sides of this particular case and cremation has absolutely nothing to do with Swedish cultures on deaths or burials.Please you should forthwith stop these kinds of allegations and remarks that could easily be interpreted as racial. Living in
Sweden and interracial marriages are in fact individual choices and anyone who is uncomfortable with any of the above arrangements is free to choose otherwise. Maggero’s personal choices should not therefore be dragged into this affair leading to generalisations that absolutely do not hold any water. We think it’s about time we started setting our values outside racial and gender differences if we are to make any notable progress and live peacefully in our societies. Respect is a two-way traffic and anyone who demands respect must be able to give the same. Please let us all learn to respect opinions and desist from seeing the gender and racial faces of opinions. PLEASE LET US ALL DO MR. MAGGERO A FAVOUR AND LET HIM REST IN PEACE….LET HIS WILL PREVAIL!!! MAY THE GOOD LORD REST MR. MAGGERO’S SOUL IN PEACE AND GIVE HIS FAMILY THE STRENGTH TO PULL THROUGH THIS VERY TRYING MOMENT.
By,Concerned Kenyans in
Stockholm
P/S Please sign and forward this petition to all Kenyans in
Stockholm, if you share the same opinion.
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January 14th, 2007 at 12:48 am I am in total agreement with the above concerns and forthwith sign the petition.
Please, lets give Jaduong’ Maggero a respectful and peaceful send off!!!!!!!!!!!!
January 14th, 2007 at 1:34 pm I totally agree with the above petition and hope that it will make
people think again, before presenting themselves as spokesmen for the Kenyan Community.
According to most Cultures, be it Kenyan, Luo, Christian or Swedish, your Spouse is your next of kin, and your immediate relatives, in the late Wuod Magero’s case His wife and kids, have every right to give their beloved Father/ Husband whatever send off that suits them best.
With all due respect, to late Mr. Maggero and his family,WEURU WECHE MANG’ENY Mr. Maggero was a beloved member of our society and will be remembered for his good heart and open mind.
January 14th, 2007 at 1:58 pm Atleast someone is telliung it to the so called ’spokesmen ‘ of kenya.
i want to assure Maggero’s wife that we are 100% supporting her.
keep up the work liberated young kenyans.
January 14th, 2007 at 2:08 pm ´my sincere condolences to The late Mageros family……….
And to the KENYANS fighting The Late mageros will,its bad enough to loose a loved one let alone to attack the bereaved family.Let Mageros family concentrate on their grief and not in controversies about what ksb beleives should have been,…………..seemingly we tend to be more intrested in corpses than life itself.
we need to style up people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
January 14th, 2007 at 2:09 pm By the way Viva Liberated Young Kenyans!!!!!!!
January 14th, 2007 at 2:36 pm A POINT OF INFORMATION
As alleged in one of the articles on the KSB blog that it is impossible to contact Maggero’s wife and children on phone or otherwise, I want to inform all parties interested that I have personally called and talked to Mrs. Maggero. She answered the phone after just two rings and was quite receptive. It is therefore untrue that she has cut communication with Kenyans.
Feel free to contact and condole the family.
January 15th, 2007 at 1:48 am We in African Press in Norway agree with the arguments in the article aboved. And we will now lift the article an puplish it for others to know.
Lifted By Korir, African Press in Norway, APN, africanpress@chello.no