Marrying a white man to elevate status is risky: Swedish man wants his Kenyan ex-wife deported from Sweden without their baby
Posted by African Press International on May 20, 2013
He insists that the baby must remain in Sweden and the baby’s Kenyan mother should be deported. He will take good care of the baby in Sweden, adding that the woman has been very cruel to him during their short-term relationship. He now blames the woman of being a gold digger who only wanted to use him to elevate her life by tricking him by getting pregnant.
A Kenyan women who left her village, and moved to theMombasa where most money-seeking women trick white men who are on holiday into sexual acts in their efforts to enrich themselves. While in Mombasa, she met a Swedish man and courtship began. On discovering she was pregnant they decided to get married. After marriage, the two moved to Sweden because the white man’s permit to stay in Kenya was no longer valid.
While in Sweden, it did not take long before their new-found relationship was cut short. They started fighting one another and their relationship has now broken down. The woman, together with the child, is now being housed at the Swedish crisis center for battered women. The man has now used his connections and wants the woman deported without the baby.
The woman’s father in Kenya who gave them the go ahead to have the relationship and also the go ahead to leave Kenya for supposed greener pastures in Sweden is now a very worried man.
He says he wants the daughter to be accorded her rights. This is, however, difficult if the marriage has not lasted for 3 years. It is a well-known fact that some women, on arriving in western capitals with their white men from Africa, they begin to be stubborn and want out to enjoy the freedom they see being enjoyed by the white women. This causes problems in the relationship. Some of the women do this intentionally because they want to leave the white man and enjoy the social welfare from the state alone as a single mother.
Those without any child have a hard time to leave the man, so most of them do the best they can to get pregnant with the white man as soon as possible trapping him well, so that if not deported with or without the child, they are accorded the social rights that will enable them to live on state welfare – tax-payers hard-earned money for free while they masquerade around at night looking for rich men who want sex with loose African women. Some choose to go into prostitution in order to supplement their income and to retain the status they had before the marriage broke down.
This is a shame for Africa!
In Norway, the same happens to many African women who are married to whites. They are later dropped if they question the white men on how they are treated, sometimes equal to slavery, and especially if the women want the liberties enjoyed by the Norwegian white women. They also get problems if the white men do not want them to meet other Africans living in the country.
If the break-up in the relationship takes place before it has not lasted over 3 years deportation will easily take place and the white men know this very well. There is also a rule that the woman can be allowed to stay in the country if proven that the man has been mishandling the woman. This, however, is always not easy to prove and the men get their ex-spouses deported easily.